How Lapis Lazuli Transformed My Life: Insights from GEM Practitioner Sydney Songer

My Personal Experience with Lapis Lazuli

Initially, I barely paid Lapis Lazuli any attention—until it was time for us to work together.

At that point, ignoring it was not an option.

I had been in a rut for some time, grappling with post-breakup heartache, confusion about my career direction, dissatisfaction with my personal relationships, and a general depression about everything. I was in a constant state of self-questioning, playing an internal tug-of-war over every life aspect, which led me to a state of unproductive stasis.

When Lapis Lazuli came into the equation, everything changed rapidly and for the better.

Within days, I felt significantly less anxiety and emotional heaviness. My mind began to settle into a more peaceful rhythm instead of constantly ruminating. Within weeks, I was making decisions that I would have previously hesitated over with a newfound certainty and confidence.

I set boundaries, ended stagnant relationships, nurtured healthy new ones, let go of draining projects, and focused my energy on aspects of my work that propelled me toward passion and purpose.

What shocked me most was the ease with which I felt better about not only my decisions but also about myself as a whole. I noticed a lightness in my energy and in my interactions, where even mundane moments felt joyful. 

I hadn't realized how my constant internal conflict had prevented me from being present and in my power.

The experience was transformative, making me realize the importance of having my own back and trusting myself to make the right decisions for my life.

Final Thoughts

While I cherish all the gemstones I work with, Lapis Lazuli holds a special place in my heart. I am confident I would have eventually made these life changes on my own, but Lapis Lazuli undoubtedly accelerated the process, and for that, I am profoundly grateful.